She says it's love

She says it's love.
But I have never heard of such a thing.
I mean people say the word often.
we have it in books by "definition"
But is it this vague definition
Or philosophy an unexplainable feeling.

She says it's love.
But when she kicked me to the curb I didn't hesitate to keep it moving.
I never have any problems letting any one go.
and it shows, drinking and fucking only to be hurt
then I passed that hurt around and guess what
I'm still hurt.

She said it was love
But four years ago it was a failed threesome
it was you dancing inside and out of your powers
while I struggled with my sanity
I'm just another unconquered land to her.

so when was it ever love.
if I asked her she wouldn't have clear answer
because to grasp love you must understand hate.