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How Do You Love A Wounded Man?

 How do you...?
When he is afraid of his own feelings
It is hard.
When he thinks he is not worth your effort
He gives up.
If he thinks he has found a perfectly wonderful woman who could have any man she wants,
He is happy to have her,
But not sure why has does

When he feels unneeded,
regardless of what his woman says to the contrary,
He is depressed

If he's not certain of something,
his desires, your intentions, your commitment,
or his ability to add to or fill your life;
Then he falters, he fears, and
he moves like he is truly unsure what to do next

How do you love a wounded man?
It's simple
You love him.
Give him yourself.
Make sure that what he sees is your true self.
Tell him your thoughts
Show him the full truth of you,
his woman
Give him your love
Like you think he needs it
Like he says he wants it
With pressure
to not quit
With support
so he won't quit
If your love for him runs deep as you claim,
Love him as if his survival is your own

Refuse to let him dwell on failure
Setbacks occur. Just give him points for effort.
Enjoy his triumphs.
Success rebuilds.
Show your strength.
Be his friend
Show him anger
Show him respect
Let him be comfortable as himself
Make it clear that disagreement is not disapproval and debate does not require a winner

The more you talk the more you understand each other
The more friction you handle,
the smoother life is and the better you two will fit together

Make this clear:
You are his
He is yours
And life,
Belongs to you both

Written by FATBOY300PLUS
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