Asexual Encounter

Asexuality (or nonsexuality)[1][2][3] is the lack of sexual attraction to anyone, or low or absent interest in sexual activity.[4][5][6] It may be considered the lack of a sexual orientation, or one of the variations thereof, alongside heterosexuality, homosexuality, and bisexuality.  
 
Asexuality and it's true Voice .....  
 
He was my very best friend,  
And I admit I was attracted to him  
One night we got straight Jim Beam  pissed,  
And we almost kissed..  
He pushed me away sudden like he was afraid.  
I was stunned and swayed...  
We often slept in the same bed, now he couldn't get me far nuff away...?  
He said "Jen babe, i am asexual."  
Tried not to be emotional, but intellectual.  
My ego was not crushed..  
It hurt that he was so afraid of my touch.  
I asked sincerely "Honey, are you gay?"  
He shook his head "Darling, no, not gay. I am another way."  
I said "Okay, let's open book babe.."  
He looks at me with tears in eyes.  
Says " I have no desire for girls or guys."  
(remember this is decades back)  
I said "So Brad Pitt doesn't make you..um..rise?  
Or Jen Anniston doesn't make you wanna spread her thighs?  
You know neither make you wanna?"  
He says "No Sweetie, both make me bout as horny as driving a Honda."  
 
We both burst in to laughter...  
I knuckle noogied him, called him "Honda fucking Bastard!"  
 
I so loved my sweet, funny friend Chad  
We talked and laughed all night, but i was sad .  
Not because he didn't wanna fuck me..  
But because i was scared hed never really be happy.  
 
The subject finally came to a  close and i like to think i understood...  
As much as any good friend possibly could, and just fucking should.  
 
Chad, wherever you are now...  
I love you brother...  
Maybe thats what it is..  
To have an asexual lover.  
 
 
[ey-sek-shoo-uh l]  
adjective  
1.  
Biology.  
having no sex or sexual organs.  
independent of sexual processes, especially not involving the union of male and female germ cells.  
2.  
free from or unaffected by sexuality:  
an asexual friendship.