This End Up

She is packaged  
Carefully by some  
Not so by others  
He is packaged  
Much the same  
 
I want her  
And she wants me  
This end up  
Anything otherwise  
Creates discontent  
 
Not liking surprises  
But always dreaming  
Of wishes unfulfilled  
I position her  
In my thoughts  
 
That certain way  
In my uncertain mind  
Defining both of us  
And is it a result  
Of what has gone before?  
 
I do not know  
Nor does he or she