when...

Sometimes,is it not,indeed, the 'mysterious'--in another--to which we are most attracted....?

(And, yet, to the contrary,do we ever truly
'k n o w' someone?)

But then, opposites......

This one seems a little more forced than your usual stellar writes. If what you desire is "not to be", then the question at the end is already answered, no?

the answer is
shrouded
in myst...

Asking doesn't cost anything.
But the answer, my friend ...