If you’re talking about tea... all 3. And sometimes I dream about it too. 😁
What’s your opinion on Stockholm syndrome... do you think it’s a real thing?
exposure to someone eleses sphere of thought, territory, home etc
over a long or decent time period...You learn someones "good traits" "bad traits" ...sympathizing after while, they become Your only source of "friend, family"
Not to mention many captors may be adept at playing to ones own character, likes or dislikes , fears etc.
Repeated actions, even those of pain can be missed if they are daily, then suddenly pulled from You.
Much can be gone on of all this.
Have You ever known anyone who was kidnapped?