Such a good helpful link Swagger thanks for having our safety in mind
I have made a noose like cuff on my wrist about 20 years ago before I knew much about tying
I have to say it was pretty cool , ankles to wrists with a noose like tightening until,
It became too much
The tingling in my wrists lasted a couple of days I was lucky I didn't have lingering effects thanks again
Luckily there was no lingering effects V.
The Rigger or the Dom(me) should both carry the same burden to their other of keeping them safe at all times during play. It seems, especially now that a lot of "Online" Dominants think because they have talked their game for so long, that it translates into reality. The simple fact of the matter is this could not be farther from the truth. They have no REAL experience to fall back on when / if it becomes real, and have a false sense of security because of the time they spent talking about it vs. practicing it. For example how to and on what parts of the body to use there "tools" to include how to properly rig without doing harm to their other. Flogging is a perfect example of this, it looks simple, but at the same time there are techniques that should be used and others that should not or damage to your other could happen (Only meaty parts of the body, no joints, no spine, no small of the back for starters) and the amount of the flogger that is used to contact also matters significantly. I am ranting, I know, but this stuff happens more and more as the lifestyle becomes more popularized. Training Training Training and Communication, Communication Communication, and when the session is over .... hello AFTERCARE people,
Thank you for sharing this story V.
You guys are my peoples and i care about all of you and your safety. inexperience is okay only if it is acknowledged, and steps are taken to safely gain said experience needed.
Ima shut up now lol, Please be safe out there, not just during play, but everywhere, the world seems to be going crazy these days and with people standing on a hair trigger chaos can break out anywhere anytime over anything. Aaaaaand I am still babbling