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Emotional Deposit Accounts
You probably heard about emotional withdrawals.
Even sharing poetry can be like that.
I want to pay my dues or pay it forward with peeps with no trust. How is that done? I was thinking gifts would help a little. Gifts help the economy, too! They are naturally untaxable for good reasons. Making them 30-50% more precious, monetarily.
Even sharing poetry can be like that.
I want to pay my dues or pay it forward with peeps with no trust. How is that done? I was thinking gifts would help a little. Gifts help the economy, too! They are naturally untaxable for good reasons. Making them 30-50% more precious, monetarily.
I like the idea of helping people without costing them anything or asking for their trust. I recently tried to reveal my identity to someone I feel trust in, thinking it would be a deposit, but then I began wondering if I was just making a withdrawal in the form of a deposit.
The Bible says " he who makes haste to be rich will not be guiltless."
Poverty is scary, though, especially the emotional poverty of "relative isolation" under threat of predators.
I have a few friends, I just don't *feel* like I am doing enough connection-wise to be a satisfactory barrier to perps.
I'm not obligated to say anything more.... but then I realized that a stalker or two in our cute little local bucktooth predator ring might bother to read this...
Listen, I already told everybody everything. Everything, and you will never know who knows your name and everything I know. So don't bother trying to protect ugly secrets. I won't take any secrets to my grave. I assure you, I am a loudmouth. It is done!
Listen, I already told everybody everything. Everything, and you will never know who knows your name and everything I know. So don't bother trying to protect ugly secrets. I won't take any secrets to my grave. I assure you, I am a loudmouth. It is done!
OK
Here's a REAL deposit for anyone raising kids...
If kidnapping child predators threaten to use your smudged paint, holes couches or dirty dishes to take your child via CPS.... fear the perp MORE than CPS. Call CPS (better, the FBI) and tell them everything you know!
Furthermore, know that they are bluffing. They know they will be in trouble for violating as Boy Scout leader, Youth Pastor, Elder.... teachers
Those peeps are trained to know better than to take a child from your home without asking. Or lying about where they are going. Or lying to your child. None of that should be tolerated.
Don't just assume they are innocent or mentally deficient. Even high functioning autistic teachers and other child care type workers, are fully trained to understand legal boundaries!
Here's a REAL deposit for anyone raising kids...
If kidnapping child predators threaten to use your smudged paint, holes couches or dirty dishes to take your child via CPS.... fear the perp MORE than CPS. Call CPS (better, the FBI) and tell them everything you know!
Furthermore, know that they are bluffing. They know they will be in trouble for violating as Boy Scout leader, Youth Pastor, Elder.... teachers
Those peeps are trained to know better than to take a child from your home without asking. Or lying about where they are going. Or lying to your child. None of that should be tolerated.
Don't just assume they are innocent or mentally deficient. Even high functioning autistic teachers and other child care type workers, are fully trained to understand legal boundaries!
This thread strangely reminds me of an episode of Roseanne, the one where DJ goes to church, and the whole family is tiptoeing on eggshells around him trying to answer his questions.
Due to his strict upbringing, my father refused to send us to church, or allow anyone to beat us over the head with a bible. Instead, he opened the door to exploration; encouraged us to read whatever religion we wanted to understand. Prompted discussions over games of chess, and asked more questions than he answered, thus leading us into ourselves for our own answers.
Sending children somewhere religious without escorting them is dangerous, imho. Unless they go with a trusted god parent, or friend, or family member. Young minds are so impressionable, and I'm following my father's lead with my grandprecious. He will know what is right for him without fear or coercion.
As far as your deposit, I suggest not pushing anything. Just relax and enjoy the camaraderie.
Due to his strict upbringing, my father refused to send us to church, or allow anyone to beat us over the head with a bible. Instead, he opened the door to exploration; encouraged us to read whatever religion we wanted to understand. Prompted discussions over games of chess, and asked more questions than he answered, thus leading us into ourselves for our own answers.
Sending children somewhere religious without escorting them is dangerous, imho. Unless they go with a trusted god parent, or friend, or family member. Young minds are so impressionable, and I'm following my father's lead with my grandprecious. He will know what is right for him without fear or coercion.
As far as your deposit, I suggest not pushing anything. Just relax and enjoy the camaraderie.
Ahavati said:This thread strangely reminds me of an episode of Roseanne, the one where DJ goes to church, and the whole family is tiptoeing on eggshells around him trying to answer his questions.
Due to his strict upbringing, my father refused to send us to church, or allow anyone to beat us over the head with a bible. Instead, he opened the door to exploration; encouraged us to read whatever religion we wanted to understand. Prompted discussions over games of chess, and asked more questions than he answered, thus leading us into ourselves for our own answers.
Sending children somewhere religious without escorting them is dangerous, imho. Unless they go with a trusted god parent, or friend, or family member. Young minds are so impressionable, and I'm following my father's lead with my grandprecious. He will know what is right for him without fear or coercion.
As far as your deposit, I suggest not pushing anything. Just relax and enjoy the camaraderie.
About the deposit, yes. I need to wind down. But I keep winding back up... still I plan to try to protect my online friends more from all that down the road. In the meantime...
Wise daddy, yours!
We really, really, learned the hard way you are right. And same for other things, even internet sites for socializing.
Every body of water has predators... so to speak.
We were convinced if we just taught the truth the kids would reflect that. "Train up a child in the way that he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it."
BUT we did not factor the words "train up" to mean of course, the trainable ones! We didn't know about untrainable children. #1 and#3 baptized our minds in the dark reality... you can only train a submissive child. They both had level one ODD. And they were emotionally abused into feeling ashamed of us all online, for homeschooling and having a large agrarian family, mini homestead and all... the first steps in a scary path of escalating drama.
I never knew this problem really existed- until in my own home, and we are still getting real life reports about nonsense to this very day. Today was, for us, a real shakeup.
We are in need of therapy, at this point. All of us! Everybody in this house is a bundle of nerves, but amazingly cohesive and happy, considering. All the kids surrounding us right now are uplifting, to say the least. Kids are all different.
Due to his strict upbringing, my father refused to send us to church, or allow anyone to beat us over the head with a bible. Instead, he opened the door to exploration; encouraged us to read whatever religion we wanted to understand. Prompted discussions over games of chess, and asked more questions than he answered, thus leading us into ourselves for our own answers.
Sending children somewhere religious without escorting them is dangerous, imho. Unless they go with a trusted god parent, or friend, or family member. Young minds are so impressionable, and I'm following my father's lead with my grandprecious. He will know what is right for him without fear or coercion.
As far as your deposit, I suggest not pushing anything. Just relax and enjoy the camaraderie.
About the deposit, yes. I need to wind down. But I keep winding back up... still I plan to try to protect my online friends more from all that down the road. In the meantime...
Wise daddy, yours!
We really, really, learned the hard way you are right. And same for other things, even internet sites for socializing.
Every body of water has predators... so to speak.
We were convinced if we just taught the truth the kids would reflect that. "Train up a child in the way that he should go and when he is old he will not depart from it."
BUT we did not factor the words "train up" to mean of course, the trainable ones! We didn't know about untrainable children. #1 and#3 baptized our minds in the dark reality... you can only train a submissive child. They both had level one ODD. And they were emotionally abused into feeling ashamed of us all online, for homeschooling and having a large agrarian family, mini homestead and all... the first steps in a scary path of escalating drama.
I never knew this problem really existed- until in my own home, and we are still getting real life reports about nonsense to this very day. Today was, for us, a real shakeup.
We are in need of therapy, at this point. All of us! Everybody in this house is a bundle of nerves, but amazingly cohesive and happy, considering. All the kids surrounding us right now are uplifting, to say the least. Kids are all different.
