Riding? The train, not particularly but I love being on one - Particularly a long one alone, people watching...so I suppose maybe, yes...
Do you think it's more important to be in all abandoning love or safe love?
Hmmmm. . .not sure I know how to explain this one. There is a third love which entails essences of both the above: abandonment and safety ( or, security ). There is abandonment in security when you meet your soul mate. You can totally be yourself without worry of making them angry or jealous ( or losing them ), because they know you, and they know you need to be who you are in order to be happy. They understand the context when you tell another man you love them. They understand the need for attention toward others so that they may grow as well. They understand your need for space, for solitude without feeling threatened that they will lose you.
Perhaps in certain lives we need to experience both kinds of love in order to recognize the third - it is by contrast that we learn only what we truly want through what we do not.
Where do you see your life in five years?