Yeah you do that, and if that's your way then, heal thyself first and we can talk more. Although one healed you probably won't be interested in my answers methinks.
One point though If you do not treat adults with understanding, empathy, love, compassion, caring, being truthful and supportive, then healing and maybe heart surgery would be necessary.
So, do all adults want to manipulate you? Do they all want to fuck you and those you know and love??
these are rhetorical questions for you to ponder as is how you treat adults.
some disappointments come from disageements
Heal thyself first.... seems more judgemental than empathetic, I do wonder what it you assume I need to heal?
I'm always interested in others answers, it may help me realise something hither to unfor know (had to be in keeping with heal thyself
"One point though If you do not treat adults with understanding, empathy, love, compassion, caring, being truthful and supportive, then healing and maybe heart surgery would be necessary."
Counter point, how many times have you run into a fire to save someone with this mentality and realised they didn't want to be saved instead they decided to hold you both there so you could go up in flames together? I'd rather toast marshmallows on the smouldering remains than run in like a gullible fool believing in the power of my own virtue cloak. as to being supportive I suggest be careful with that one as well lest you become someone's permeant walking stick removing from them their own agency to walk on their own un-aided.
as to heart surgery, I have more heart than I can handle it's why I guard it against other peoples own stupidity, tried to really help a few people and overall found it worse than bringing up my own children, I'll save my empathy, love, support, compassion and caring for those that are worth it. I'll be as honest as my own humanity will allow, case in point this right here and if that happens to hurt people feelings see advice "suck it up"
"So, do all adults want to manipulate you? Do they all want to fuck you and those you know and love??"
despite your instance that these questions are rhetorical I decided to answer them as well, with questions of my own,
Are all adults complete angels devoid of resentment, anger, frustration and destructively dangerous tendencies that they can use to manipulate, hurt and even tear you apart or down?
do they all truly want what is best for you?
how do you differentiate between them if your so busy throwing your own life away emotionally, mentally and sometimes physically for someone else's gain