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What Is The Best Way To Tell Someone You Like Them

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MsRockyJackson
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Hi everyone!, so I’d like to discuss crushes and not just talk about your personal suggestions on how to tell someone you like them but would also like to know some of your good/bad stories of telling a crush you liked them whether it was crush from back then to now share your story!. 😊

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Things I’ve learned from my time here:

Don’t tell people you like them unless you’ve actually met up with them. It causes way too many issues and fucks with way too many brains. Having a muse is fair enough. If you’ve not met in real life, I’m sorry... it’s not love, you’re just in love with the idea of love.

It’s worth mentioning this is not aimed at anyone, this is my own opinion from my own experiences before anybody gets upset.

Also pornhub is free. Have a wank and save all the dramz👌🏻


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Hullo ^-^

..hardly my area of expertise, but I've always thought that how much you like someone is given away by how you act around the person, things like; laughing really hard at their jokes, finding things they do cute & funny, or looking at them a certain way ...come to mind, and oftentimes you can't really control it.

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I always found being honest was the way to go, both ways. I'm not a manipulator (except when the government tries to deny my kids services they are legally entitled to but that is different) and feelings are not to be trifled with. I've told people that I've had feelings for how I felt, and yes, more times than not it didn't go my way, but at least I was honest and then able to move on.

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I was once eagerly pursued by an ex-poet here, somehow beyond DUP, I do not think the intensity was there to sustain, take notes, it is only a muse fantasy here, the mind tends to fall into, once you accept that notion, then you know how to have mental fun and when it's time to move on, you do so gracefully, and I could not be more happier with my Irish Lover...mm, blazing the way for a future...oh yes

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So far loving the responses and advice I feel it will not only help those who are crushing on someone right now but are having a hard time trying to tell someone how they feel.

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I read something a long time ago that stuck with me ( and has proven true ): You don't have to seek anything.  All you have to do is wait for alignment: decide what you want ( by virtue of what you don't want if you're uncertain ); create a list or vision board of those qualities; place it somewhere where you either see or read it daily; and, the most important part: BELIEVE it will come to pass and it will.  Your belief manifests the actual situation you want while the Universe aligns it over time. *

This includes an opportunity to be honest.  Forcing something before it's time can kill it before it matures. Think the scene in "My Best Friend's Wedding" when Julia Roberts is on the ferry with Dermot Mulroney and the "moment" ( or, opportunity ) passes because she was too afraid to say something.

Let it happen naturally - if it aligns with what you want in your heart - it will.  If you have the patience to realize that you're evolving and learning through the patience to wait - it will happen when you are READY for it to happen. If you don't allow the fear of being alone overtake the patience to wait for it to happen naturally - it will happen.

* This is not to be confused with bending the will of another person to conform to yours.  No one else's lives, wants, or desires should be ours to control - only our own.  It's another's desire who aligns with your own that will pick up the your vibration and gravitate toward your frequency.  

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Ahavati said:

* This is not to be confused with bending the will of another person to conform to yours.  No one else's lives, wants, or desires should be ours to control - only our own.  It's another's desire who aligns with your own that will pick up the your vibration and gravitate toward your frequency.  


LOVE this part the best

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Tallen said:

LOVE this part the best


Thank you, Tallen. No one would want their own will controlled - I don't know why they would want to control another's.

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Ahavati said:

Thank you, Tallen. No one would want their own will controlled - I don't know why they would want to control another's.


I know i am way too indolent to want the responsibility of control  

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Ahavati said:I read something a long time ago that stuck with me ( and has proven true ): You don't have to seek anything.  All you have to do is wait for alignment: decide what you want ( by virtue of what you don't want if you're uncertain ); create a list or vision board of those qualities; place it somewhere where you either see or read it daily; and, the most important part: BELIEVE it will come to pass and it will.  Your belief manifests the actual situation you want while the Universe aligns it over time. *


Agree with this completely. Not just in meeting someone, in everyday life. The desire, will and belief are the driving force in manifesting what you want in life. I always tell my son before he goes to sleep, to put thoughts of what he wants out of life into his mind, and not what is not going his way. Go to sleep thinking of good things.

As for liking someone and telling them, I don't know. I've not liked anyone enough for it to be relevant in a long time and my last three relationships, two in real life and one online. I didn't like them, they liked me and pursued me, I just happen to succumb and all three turned bad, the real life ones, extremely so.  
I won't actually go near a relationship now unless I actually like someone first and there are no red flags. I've not given up on men, I've just taken a long time out for me. There is always hope. My mum remarried just over a year ago and she is 84 this year.

But, if I like someone, I don't know how I would approach it.

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There are too many snakes and not enough ladders such is the internet. Face to face you can read their eyes, hear their voice, their emphasis, and their body language. Liking, lusting and loving as three very different emotions. Microchips are not a solid foundation. If you truly like someone then showing them respect and admiration will do it. If you are lusting after them, cybersex is such a mistake go visit a brothel.  Expressing love in this fool's paradise is aking to face a firing squad

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