That is quite revealing Sky, most often its miscommunication.
I highly recommend for anyone who has any kind of dislike to someone ...to just one day only, like an 8hour period to talk/pm/message each other, openly and honestly deciding that whatever the communication might be, or hard it is to 'hear' what they have to say..to do it anyway, then after that day they can go about their days. I truly believe that each party will be shocked to find out how alike they really are and the intentions were not as bad as they initially thought.
this is definitely true in my case. i've been blowing off at people who i see myself in, but not out of fear, out of knowing their potential is more than they're achieving and they also have no respect for me, and so it's me fighting me but i'm out of sync for some reason. i always was out of tune tho