Let's flip this: describe a situation where you had to make a choice despite NOT having clarity.
The only situation I can think of is when I had to leave my house and end my job due to very personal reasons. This was after an incident of domestic violence. It did lead to a huge transformation though what ached was that
noone actually understands , Especially the system is very very harsh, in terms of help etc it always is said that
"one cannot use the situation as reason". The system is so incredibly harsh that you just have to bite into your own dust. You have to do this that etc etc. It ignores your pain and can stigmatize people for life.
When this above "situation" happened, I had a staff meeting coming up at the place I worked and that was a mirror for me. In this country staff meetings are a MUST. Even though she knew the reason I still felt it coming that I was going to loose my job. You see, in case of sick leave too it even says on the papers "having social or economical problems does not fullfill the right to sick money". The laws have so many contradictionary small rules.
Now Im saying this just to share, it is not an oppinion and by all means Im not a person who sees the negative only.
I will always strive to see the lighter places and possibilities. For me and for my child, for my family and loved ones.
What item is most dear to you and why?