So my opinion, for what it's not worth...
I'm not a magnificent fan of poetry that is directed AT the reader, so to take this threads label and invert it...
"you, you, you, you, you, you, you!"
I feel that it is almost accusation like at the reader. I find sometimes I even think to my self, but look dear poet, I didn't do anything to you, why would you want stick a poker up my but hole.
Sometimes it's not accusation like, but rather preachy, and I'm not loving that either.
I have written a lot about myself and so would do the "me" thing naturally,
but I find that because I don't like the "you, you, you, you, you" thing, that I'm very careful to try keep them down to a minimum.
Mostly because I don't want to come over as self indulgent or overly narcissistic.
Come to think of it, off the cuff... Can't think of a single "I, me, I, me, I, me" poem by a famous poet that I actually like...
don't recall a "you, you, you, you" piece by an accomplished writer that I enjoyed either.