Cheating
Grace said:Thats three Fs. Very clever. Anyway Holly is right. Its an old topic that made would be Kings vaguely uneasy about their rights to the Kingdom. Makes for a good muse though...and songs.
Er... thanks? Though what the Fs does three Fs have to do with the price of screaming guinea pigs. (Now that I think of it, I don't know if that refers to guinea pigs as in the furry animal, or pigs that are valued at the cost of a guinea.)
Vee - Given your interesting points about cheaters lacking emotional growth and wanting gratification, could the answer and solution be an obsessed cheat? By that I mean the cheatee cheating with an other, and that other becoming obsessed and infatuated to the point that the cheatee cannot move onto contestant number 12, as 11 is feeding their ego.
Basically if there could be stable and alright relationships with people-of-negotiable-affection, they would end up with no clients but a fair partner.
Do stop me if the tangent train was not scheduled for today.
Er... thanks? Though what the Fs does three Fs have to do with the price of screaming guinea pigs. (Now that I think of it, I don't know if that refers to guinea pigs as in the furry animal, or pigs that are valued at the cost of a guinea.)
Vee - Given your interesting points about cheaters lacking emotional growth and wanting gratification, could the answer and solution be an obsessed cheat? By that I mean the cheatee cheating with an other, and that other becoming obsessed and infatuated to the point that the cheatee cannot move onto contestant number 12, as 11 is feeding their ego.
Basically if there could be stable and alright relationships with people-of-negotiable-affection, they would end up with no clients but a fair partner.
Do stop me if the tangent train was not scheduled for today.
one issue...
determining who it is you are supposed to be faithful to...
say you have one relationship that permits others, and then a second one that does not...
which is the one that was being cheated on?
the love that killed your heart by needing some time apart
or the love that bought your heart back to the point that the other all consuming fire returned
determining who it is you are supposed to be faithful to...
say you have one relationship that permits others, and then a second one that does not...
which is the one that was being cheated on?
the love that killed your heart by needing some time apart
or the love that bought your heart back to the point that the other all consuming fire returned
its just me,
no church to guide me
just a simple belief that open relationships, triads, and more would be better than betrayal or failure of expectations...
there is one woman that can put me in a death spiral by leaving...
but when she talks to me of anything, even her lovers or significant others
i can live
wives, girlfriends and lovers...
i am only as faithful to them as i can struggle to be, with her in the back of my mind
take note
wives hate it when you need to go to the house of the one that has claws in your soul for her mothers wake...
the one that has claws in you tends to unperson you fast if you wind up not going
when you start a relationship...
it is best to find out if there is an ex that they are especially sensitive about...
no church to guide me
just a simple belief that open relationships, triads, and more would be better than betrayal or failure of expectations...
there is one woman that can put me in a death spiral by leaving...
but when she talks to me of anything, even her lovers or significant others
i can live
wives, girlfriends and lovers...
i am only as faithful to them as i can struggle to be, with her in the back of my mind
take note
wives hate it when you need to go to the house of the one that has claws in your soul for her mothers wake...
the one that has claws in you tends to unperson you fast if you wind up not going
when you start a relationship...
it is best to find out if there is an ex that they are especially sensitive about...
did you take photos ?
Five wives. just a thought: the term 'stick to your own' may be apt here. fencing that it might be, it would cut out the problem of cheating.
eg; if you're dating Polly and she's poly, date another poly too. jaysus, man. you make things soo complicated for yourself
..if the one that doesn't allow others loved you for who you are ...all of you, then you'd not be in that particular predicament
Five wives. just a thought: the term 'stick to your own' may be apt here. fencing that it might be, it would cut out the problem of cheating.
eg; if you're dating Polly and she's poly, date another poly too. jaysus, man. you make things soo complicated for yourself
..if the one that doesn't allow others loved you for who you are ...all of you, then you'd not be in that particular predicament
HHMCameron said:one issue...
determining who it is you are supposed to be faithful to...
say you have one relationship that permits others, and then a second one that does not...
which is the one that was being cheated on?
the love that killed your heart by needing some time apart
or the love that bought your heart back to the point that the other all consuming fire returned
all these cliche, bubble-gum, teenage ideas of 'love'. I think you cheapen the word with these examples....
you sound immature and commitment phobic, not poly-enlightened.
not an attack, merely an observation that you have pursued this topic through many threads, with a trail of rather childish 'love' declarations...ending worlds, claws in hearts blah blah blah...
i think you're just fucked up.
welcome to the club, and stop thinking that makes you interesting.
determining who it is you are supposed to be faithful to...
say you have one relationship that permits others, and then a second one that does not...
which is the one that was being cheated on?
the love that killed your heart by needing some time apart
or the love that bought your heart back to the point that the other all consuming fire returned
all these cliche, bubble-gum, teenage ideas of 'love'. I think you cheapen the word with these examples....
you sound immature and commitment phobic, not poly-enlightened.
not an attack, merely an observation that you have pursued this topic through many threads, with a trail of rather childish 'love' declarations...ending worlds, claws in hearts blah blah blah...
i think you're just fucked up.
welcome to the club, and stop thinking that makes you interesting.
drab and self effacing...
interesting, really?
fucked up...
broken
raven is the one that broke me
it is not fear of commitment.
it is making commitments when i only think that i am free of the first
i will not say that i do poly well...
only that i am most touched by stories of a woman with her two husbands,
of the woman with her husband and other associates (would that i had not made countervailing commitments)
love and commitment are more than responses to physical pleasure...
things that do not go away simply because they are no longer convenient
interesting, really?
fucked up...
broken
raven is the one that broke me
it is not fear of commitment.
it is making commitments when i only think that i am free of the first
i will not say that i do poly well...
only that i am most touched by stories of a woman with her two husbands,
of the woman with her husband and other associates (would that i had not made countervailing commitments)
love and commitment are more than responses to physical pleasure...
things that do not go away simply because they are no longer convenient
