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Dating a Trans

I have been dating a trans guy for about a year and a half now. If you are asking yourself what a trans guy I can answer that right off. A trans guy is a girl who wants to be a guy. In other words they have a male mind but a female body. Imagine waking up in the wrong body every morning...eeeppp. I would die. Anyways I will start off on how we met. I am an online gamer. So if you are familiar with being a gamer than you are used to meeting random people. Well, my friend "brandi" moved from the state i currently live in to another. But we kept in touch via online gaming and skype. One day she told me she had a friend that she would like me to talk to. So of course I joined a chat with him. At first he did not like me because I am very bipolar and my moods can switch st sny moment. So he thought I was a mean person. I kept on trying to get close to him because I mean I didn't have many people to talk to. Well after 4 long months of talking he finally liked me. We got to the point in our friendship to were we started to like like each other. So, I bulked up and asked him out. He of course said yes. The first 5 months in our relationship were wonderful. Until he told me he was a girl. But, me "being bisexual" made this easier for me to deal with. And my love for him never changed. But after he told me this he started to change. It went from us being sweet to each other to him nagging about his body. I let the nagging slide at the time because I understand that it is hard to be in a body that you hate. He then started to bitch at me for not complimenting his body because his self esteem is low. I again knew what he was going through. So i tried my best to compliment his body. But, i couldnt compliment his body because what can you compliment if they hate everything about themselves and get mad if you say something he thinks is offensive. I mean its not like i can say "nice tits" to the guy because he hates them or say "you have a cute face" he hates his face because its feminine. So like wtf am i suppose to compliment. So it got to the point in our relationship were I couldnt handle it anymore.. I had to leave the crazy bastard. Take my advice if you are dating or are thinking about dating a trans make sure you just bluntly ask them if they are a self conceded asshole and if they constantly nag about how they hate their body. I have no harsh feelings to anyone trans, but after i dated a trans male, I have lost how to be affectionate and how to show love towards someone.
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