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Zazzles said:
Me, well I have been stalked twice and didn't open the mail.
Simple ay? Seems to me that a lot of people are attention hounds, especially the ones who Gasp and cry about how offended and "frightened" they become by strangers.
Really? This is a public forum and seriously maybe some people need to learn how to ignore and stop causing more issues with your lame ass suggestions!
Seriously? Do you know, some people spend the rest of their life looking over their shoulder because of said people? Do you know, some online stalkers have found their prey and taken it further than PM's, taking it to the extreme? Those survivors live with that "fear" and when they go online and receive a poxy message from some asshole fucking freak. They are taken right back to the fear of the stalker/s who stalked them IRL.
Me, well I have been stalked twice and didn't open the mail.
Simple ay? Seems to me that a lot of people are attention hounds, especially the ones who Gasp and cry about how offended and "frightened" they become by strangers.
Really? This is a public forum and seriously maybe some people need to learn how to ignore and stop causing more issues with your lame ass suggestions!
Seriously? Do you know, some people spend the rest of their life looking over their shoulder because of said people? Do you know, some online stalkers have found their prey and taken it further than PM's, taking it to the extreme? Those survivors live with that "fear" and when they go online and receive a poxy message from some asshole fucking freak. They are taken right back to the fear of the stalker/s who stalked them IRL.
Anonymous
She right about that. I've been and still am stalked by an ex for three years now. I've become a recluse because of it and a extreme introvert. He's followed me to this site, lucky things were dealt with. But this place was a safe haven from what scared me in reality. To a way to express emotions built up because of fear and absolute hatred for what a stalker has done to me. In reality I'm just a akward college kid who gets small heart attacks when receiving messages on here now. Even said stalker has ruined the idea of marriage for me to a point. This site only helps me recover and heal from the experience that life has dealt me with. Its like a therapy if you will, slowly I'm beginning to socialize more. And get out of the house, Ican say I have a small ounce of fear still but I hardly fear the stalker anymore. For I have amounted a hatred for said person.
But to know a fear like one day they may find me and go to my college. Follow me home, hurt my bf, and may possibly kill me one day. Is a fear no one should ever know.
I wouldn't suggest being someone who is taken by hatred though. Its not a paradise to live in.
That was honorable and ultimately respectful of you Magdalena to state that. You have my thanks.
But to know a fear like one day they may find me and go to my college. Follow me home, hurt my bf, and may possibly kill me one day. Is a fear no one should ever know.
I wouldn't suggest being someone who is taken by hatred though. Its not a paradise to live in.
That was honorable and ultimately respectful of you Magdalena to state that. You have my thanks.
sorry to hear that....I kinda feel what you are saying.
In my town I am stalked by this wacky lady that knows the police.
Shes like a local drug dealer working at this porn store.
Man do I avoid her when I go through town!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She also has henchman looking for me. One face I remember. Others that are unknown that crop up now and then. Blaring their horns at me when I walk.
In my town I am stalked by this wacky lady that knows the police.
Shes like a local drug dealer working at this porn store.
Man do I avoid her when I go through town!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
She also has henchman looking for me. One face I remember. Others that are unknown that crop up now and then. Blaring their horns at me when I walk.
Anonymous
Sorry Op that this is getting off topic and my thoughts on the subject is that all accounts should stay intact.
Zazzles, you're right about not answering or ignoring stalkers' pms or email messages, most often they work but the one's who are obsessed with this twisted fucked up hobby of theirs do not need to pm or email. This glass wall (the computer screen) that we all think we might have anonymity , the crafty usernames we use or avatars/images are nothing more than putting blinders on and pretending to be safe in a child's doll house.
Pffttt, they don't need anything but obsession or some diabolical motive and boredom, they don't need to hate you or love you, hell they don't even have to communicate one single mono syllable word with you and they can come into your real world, now that's when THE NIGHTMARE Begins involving your family, neighbors, friends, accounts, work and making you a prisoner in your own jail, which you lock yourself in.
You just entered my world 6yrs ago..now i will politely say your aggression on the matter is unfounded unless you've been a TRUE victim of a REAL stalker.
Zazzles, you're right about not answering or ignoring stalkers' pms or email messages, most often they work but the one's who are obsessed with this twisted fucked up hobby of theirs do not need to pm or email. This glass wall (the computer screen) that we all think we might have anonymity , the crafty usernames we use or avatars/images are nothing more than putting blinders on and pretending to be safe in a child's doll house.
Pffttt, they don't need anything but obsession or some diabolical motive and boredom, they don't need to hate you or love you, hell they don't even have to communicate one single mono syllable word with you and they can come into your real world, now that's when THE NIGHTMARE Begins involving your family, neighbors, friends, accounts, work and making you a prisoner in your own jail, which you lock yourself in.
You just entered my world 6yrs ago..now i will politely say your aggression on the matter is unfounded unless you've been a TRUE victim of a REAL stalker.
Anonymous
I gotta agree with keeping the accounts up, the users may desire to come back. I would take them down if there was absolutely nothing on/in it.
Off topic: stalkers who know when to stop are human. But the show on this investigation channel I use to watch called "stalked'. Those are some mentally unstable fuckers and that's what scared me when my stalker progressed to that level of complete terror. So let's all agree the ones who have common sense like "hey my methods aren't working, what I'm doing is hopeless. Time to stop and move on." Crazy fuckers "just keep stalking, just keep stalking, what do you do when see her/him? Follow follow." Sorry for using doreys from finding nemo song. Just thought a little joke would lighten the mood. ;-;
Off topic: stalkers who know when to stop are human. But the show on this investigation channel I use to watch called "stalked'. Those are some mentally unstable fuckers and that's what scared me when my stalker progressed to that level of complete terror. So let's all agree the ones who have common sense like "hey my methods aren't working, what I'm doing is hopeless. Time to stop and move on." Crazy fuckers "just keep stalking, just keep stalking, what do you do when see her/him? Follow follow." Sorry for using doreys from finding nemo song. Just thought a little joke would lighten the mood. ;-;
Atakti, I wasn't telling anyone specifically to STFU I was merely expressing my opinion in general.
Why does it matter if this is an old thread or not? Am I not entitled to venture my opinion in any public thread
old or new?
I don't see you asking other folks this type of question. Whatever.
Why does it matter if this is an old thread or not? Am I not entitled to venture my opinion in any public thread
old or new?
I don't see you asking other folks this type of question. Whatever.
Magdalena said:[quote-273765-Zazzles]
Me, well I have been stalked twice and didn't open the mail.
Simple ay? Seems to me that a lot of people are attention hounds, especially the ones who Gasp and cry about how offended and "frightened" they become by strangers.
Really? This is a public forum and seriously maybe some people need to learn how to ignore and stop causing more issues with your lame ass suggestions!
Seriously? Do you know, some people spend the rest of their life looking over their shoulder because of said people? Do you know, some online stalkers have found their prey and taken it further than PM's, taking it to the extreme? Those survivors live with that "fear" and when they go online and receive a poxy message from some asshole fucking freak. They are taken right back to the fear of the stalker/s who stalked them IRL.
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Hi Magdalena, you and I have always gotten along, I was merely stating my opinion nothing more nothing less. If people cannot function without fearing strangers why then come to a public forum?
Me, well I have been stalked twice and didn't open the mail.
Simple ay? Seems to me that a lot of people are attention hounds, especially the ones who Gasp and cry about how offended and "frightened" they become by strangers.
Really? This is a public forum and seriously maybe some people need to learn how to ignore and stop causing more issues with your lame ass suggestions!
Seriously? Do you know, some people spend the rest of their life looking over their shoulder because of said people? Do you know, some online stalkers have found their prey and taken it further than PM's, taking it to the extreme? Those survivors live with that "fear" and when they go online and receive a poxy message from some asshole fucking freak. They are taken right back to the fear of the stalker/s who stalked them IRL.
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Hi Magdalena, you and I have always gotten along, I was merely stating my opinion nothing more nothing less. If people cannot function without fearing strangers why then come to a public forum?
Vee said:Sorry Op that this is getting off topic and my thoughts on the subject is that all accounts should stay intact.
Zazzles, you're right about not answering or ignoring stalkers' pms or email messages, most often they work but the one's who are obsessed with this twisted fucked up hobby of theirs do not need to pm or email. This glass wall (the computer screen) that we all think we might have anonymity , the crafty usernames we use or avatars/images are nothing more than putting blinders on and pretending to be safe in a child's doll house.
Pffttt, they don't need anything but obsession or some diabolical motive and boredom, they don't need to hate you or love you, hell they don't even have to communicatstice one single mono syllable word with you and they can come into your real world, now that's when THE NIGHTMARE Begins involving your family, neighbors, friends, accounts, work and making you a prisoner in your own jail, which you lock yourself in.
You just entered my world 6yrs ago..now i will politely say your aggression on the matter is unfounded unless you've been a TRUE victim of a REAL stalker.
My aggression? Nah it was and is simply my opinion.
Zazzles, you're right about not answering or ignoring stalkers' pms or email messages, most often they work but the one's who are obsessed with this twisted fucked up hobby of theirs do not need to pm or email. This glass wall (the computer screen) that we all think we might have anonymity , the crafty usernames we use or avatars/images are nothing more than putting blinders on and pretending to be safe in a child's doll house.
Pffttt, they don't need anything but obsession or some diabolical motive and boredom, they don't need to hate you or love you, hell they don't even have to communicatstice one single mono syllable word with you and they can come into your real world, now that's when THE NIGHTMARE Begins involving your family, neighbors, friends, accounts, work and making you a prisoner in your own jail, which you lock yourself in.
You just entered my world 6yrs ago..now i will politely say your aggression on the matter is unfounded unless you've been a TRUE victim of a REAL stalker.
My aggression? Nah it was and is simply my opinion.
Zazzles said:
Hi Magdalena, you and I have always gotten along, I was merely stating my opinion nothing more nothing less. If people cannot function without fearing strangers why then come to a public forum?
Hello Broom. Yes we have.
I never said it was fearing strangers, I said in a round about way, it is stalkers/preditors/asshole fucking freaks sending poxy PM's that would take them right back to that place of fear.
life is pretty much public, I could say "why live" I would rather say "why should they avoid public forums because of the scum of the earth" Those scum should be the ones not in these places and made to feel uncomfortable being here, not those who they choose to solicit.
I have endless one off PM's, that I just ignore, but there are those who persist and insist, find you in others places no matter where you are online.
I have already said my piece on the OP, so I will bow out now as not to take it right off topic.
Hi Magdalena, you and I have always gotten along, I was merely stating my opinion nothing more nothing less. If people cannot function without fearing strangers why then come to a public forum?
Hello Broom. Yes we have.
I never said it was fearing strangers, I said in a round about way, it is stalkers/preditors/asshole fucking freaks sending poxy PM's that would take them right back to that place of fear.
life is pretty much public, I could say "why live" I would rather say "why should they avoid public forums because of the scum of the earth" Those scum should be the ones not in these places and made to feel uncomfortable being here, not those who they choose to solicit.
I have endless one off PM's, that I just ignore, but there are those who persist and insist, find you in others places no matter where you are online.
I have already said my piece on the OP, so I will bow out now as not to take it right off topic.
Anonymous
Zazzles said:Atakti, I wasn't telling anyone specifically to STFU I was merely expressing my opinion in general.
Why does it matter if this is an old thread or not? Am I not entitled to venture my opinion in any public thread
old or new?
I don't see you asking other folks this type of question. Whatever.
As if this shit needed dragging up. Not to mention your own son was one of the worst multiple profile creeps going back in the day. The phrase 'pot' and 'kettle' comes to mind.
Why does it matter if this is an old thread or not? Am I not entitled to venture my opinion in any public thread
old or new?
I don't see you asking other folks this type of question. Whatever.
As if this shit needed dragging up. Not to mention your own son was one of the worst multiple profile creeps going back in the day. The phrase 'pot' and 'kettle' comes to mind.
Zazzles said:Atakti, I wasn't telling anyone specifically to STFU I was merely expressing my opinion in general.
Why does it matter if this is an old thread or not? Am I not entitled to venture my opinion in any public thread
old or new?
I don't see you asking other folks this type of question. Whatever.
I'll moderate how I see fit, thanks.
This is a sensitive topic and how it is discussed, and when and by whom is something I will always keep a close eye on.
Your martyr act is getting old. If you really think I have been unjust, take it up with the Web Miss. Any outbursts on the forums, and I'm giving you a time-out. Yeah, I've seen your past drama, and it ain't pretty.
Let's not go there.
Why does it matter if this is an old thread or not? Am I not entitled to venture my opinion in any public thread
old or new?
I don't see you asking other folks this type of question. Whatever.
I'll moderate how I see fit, thanks.
This is a sensitive topic and how it is discussed, and when and by whom is something I will always keep a close eye on.
Your martyr act is getting old. If you really think I have been unjust, take it up with the Web Miss. Any outbursts on the forums, and I'm giving you a time-out. Yeah, I've seen your past drama, and it ain't pretty.
Let's not go there.
Anonymous
I started this thread on May 18th. And then Lord Viddax had his last response the 21st of May. From my first response to his, a lot of responses occurred and opinions and verbal jousting. Why in the world is thread begin resurrected from the unofficial "boiler room?" MODS, I asking you just delete this thread and officially send it to the BR.
