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Revenge Porn

QueenCyndi
Strange Creature
United States
Joined 26th May 2015
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Thats an invasion of privacy like if you trust someone with your body you would atleast expect them to show some respect. I could never be able to date someone who's ever done this or thought of doing it.

MadameLavender
Guardian of Shadows
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Joined 17th Feb 2013
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Sounds like the makings of a major lawsuit, to me, on the grounds that someone made public, pictures of someone without their signed, legal consent.  I'd be getting a lawyer if I were in that situation.

caxton
Thought Provoker
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Joined 9th July 2013
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It's in poor taste. Whatever proclivities may prevail in the pursuit of passion the promulgation and dissemination of private images recorded with a reasonable belief in privacy and without previous knowledge that they would be released, would constitute a breach in the trust involved in making those images. And while caution and thought should be used by both participants prior to creation, any passive-aggressive or malicious dissemination thereof is not only legally and morally reprehensible, it is juvenile and weak. Further, stop fucking up women emotionally before I get to them.

case28
Alexander Case
Dangerous Mind
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Most chicks know when they're unwrapping their new boyfriend from its package, that if they turn him upside down, they can see if he bares the mark of an asshole.

Seriously, you wanna know if you can trust a guy or if he's got the potential to be an A-grade asshole, if and when your relationship ends? Ask him about his ex-girlfriends. How does he respond? Does he still have an amicable relationship with his exes? If he was a virgin and didn't have an ex [alarm bells] what's his relationship like between him and his mother? How does his father treat his mother? It all comes down to respect for women.

There's another trick to make sure you're not a victim of revenge porn... occasionally remind your BF that his dick isn't that big, that it's below average in size, that you've had bigger, talk down to the dick, give it a lame nickname, never refer to it as his cock, disrespect the dick and I bet your asshole boyfriend won't have the balls to get even with you by uploading your personal porn collection online.

Viddax
Lord Viddax
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case28 said:Most chicks know when they're unwrapping their new boyfriend from its package, that if they turn him upside down, they can see if he bares the mark of an asshole.

Seriously, you wanna know if you can trust a guy or if he's got the potential to be an A-grade asshole, if and when your relationship ends? Ask him about his ex-girlfriends. How does he respond? Does he still have an amicable relationship with his exes? If he was a virgin and didn't have an ex [alarm bells] what's his relationship like between him and his mother? How does his father treat his mother? It all comes down to respect for women.

There's another trick to make sure you're not a victim of revenge porn... occasionally remind your BF that his dick isn't that big, that it's below average in size, that you've had bigger, talk down to the dick, give it a lame nickname, never refer to it as his cock, disrespect the dick and I bet your asshole boyfriend won't have the balls to get even with you by uploading your personal porn collection online.


That last trick, my informants tell me, is a way to turn some guys on so it would indeed reduce the need of any revenge porn as they would be getting porn already.
Note that if they are a eunuch or have only one ball, then this trick may not work.

An even better trick is being in a relationship that is all round amicable. Though that requires an even bigger and better trick of picking the right one. Which is kind of solved by being single, fearing all men (and women) and never ever losing yourself to love.

Grace
IDryad
Tyrant of Words
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Interesting. Tasteful nudity though, like art. Does that count as porn? In the past we walked about with our boobs hanging out. The men often times had a ball showing ...they were in loincloth. Nobody cared. We were/are 'natives' of an island. So in modern times if one is photographed in the nude, does it count as porn? I always thought porn was people engaged in some sort of lewdness...BJs and penetrations and pets.

seekingkate
kateA
Tyrant of Words
Australia 28awards
Joined 20th May 2014
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Viddax said:[

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An even better trick is being in a relationship that is all round amicable. Though that requires an even bigger and better trick of picking the right one. Which is kind of solved by being single, fearing all men (and women) and never ever losing yourself to love.


Amicable....agree with you there Viddax...
As painful as losing yourself to love is, life would be somewhat boring at times without this injection....

poet Anonymous

I agree with Case, but overall I have never let an ex photo me naked and have never felt the need to photo her naked. But if that is your thing you are opening yourself up to a "grade A asshole" as case says. We think we know people but things and times change. I feel sorry for those assholes, "why" you say? There life is so shallow that that somehow gives them satisfaction. Hold your head high if it ever happens to you , most know that this is a violation of trust and only looks bad on them not the one who trusted. You are never as bad looking as you think you are, in a moment of love!!!

KnightTimePoetry
Lost Thinker
United States
Joined 27th May 2015
Forum Posts: 6

No, you cant justify a break up by slandering an ex girl/boyfriend. my first discussion great topicXD, no matter if it be cheating lying, that's a b.s excuse to leave personal sexual feelings all over the inter-webs. Its just not fair, me personally (may it be my gender or opinion) couldn't give two f**ks, but that's me but other people  could have serious problems opening up sexually (like the girl im currently talking to) and be extremely depressed if this kind of information gets out. there's a web site called yougotposted.com basically the same concept except nude pictures of said ex. all shitty ways to make a point based on self driven opinion and emotion. its just generally insensitive to void a persons feelings like that. time for bed. Good Knight sleep tight.

KnightTimePoetry
Lost Thinker
United States
Joined 27th May 2015
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first discussion! thank you for letting me feel so welcome my response is below Good Knight!!

KnightTimePoetry
Lost Thinker
United States
Joined 27th May 2015
Forum Posts: 6

and to case hello by the way nice win on that poetry contest i give props,good show man!,i always keep a tight friendship with all of my exes besides the ones that are bat shit crazy but i still acknowledge them on a level of respect you would give a stranger but keep them close because if you fucked up with them they can ruin your next realationship. Good Knight once more.

Astyanax
Ceejay
Fire of Insight
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Joined 23rd Feb 2010
Forum Posts: 748

Anyone who posts revenge porn online is a Grade 1 shit, BUT when will the victims realize that the only safe way to appear naked in front of your partner is in real life? Sending some guy porno pictures of yourself is giving hostages to fortune.

Indie
Miss Indie
Tyrant of Words
Australia 34awards
Joined 3rd Sep 2011
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I'm not sure I deal with Case's advice. Insulting people is never a good start to a relationship.

poet Anonymous

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UnleashedHeathen
Fire of Insight
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Joined 6th Dec 2011
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Man. I read the whole thing. I'm not sure what I think. I worry about that stuff, though. Like, what if I become president or some shit? Where would my photos be... and for how much.

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